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10 Tips On How to Live A Happy Successful Life

What is the secret to a happy life? The new science of happiness show us that the secret is that happiness can be learned!At Howng, we are dedicated to bringing you 10 best tips you need to Be Happier Now.

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

1. Smile More Often

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

Smiling more is a simple way to greatly improve the quality of your life. All you have to do is smile, and life will be better, Really. It’s that simple. Smiling is the natural way to force yourself to be happy. Many people even smile for five minutes straight in the morning to get themselves in a great mood for the day. It is a very powerful tool that is utilized less and less as we grow older and need happiness more than ever. Just remember that while happiness leads to smiles, smiles also lead to happiness. Researchers think that by forcing a smile, you activate a specific set of muscles in the face. That set of muscles is closely connected to the emotions of happiness and joy. By smiling, you are signaling the emotional centers of your brain to tell them that everything is good.

2. Don’t Take Life So Seriously!

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

Don’t take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive. Life is serious and taking it too seriously robs you of happiness, fun and productivity. A solemn outlook increases stress, squanders creativity and innovation, and stifles progress. Learn to laugh at the little things and this whole “existence” thing will be a whole lot easier. Be amused by your mistakes and failures and be thankful that you learned your lesson and won’t mess up like that again. And most importantly do things that you enjoy! Smile. Laugh. Skip, hop, and run. Do something you truly love and have fun doing it! Life is not strictly business, it can be mixed with pleasure.

3. Think Positive Thoughts

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

It is quite common to hear people say: “Think positive!”, to someone who feels down and worried. Most people do not take these words seriously, as they do not know what they really mean, or do not consider them as useful and effective.
Having negative thoughts play out like a movie can only bring you pain. Negative thoughts drain you of energy and keep you from being in the present moment. The more you give in to your negative thoughts, the stronger they become. When you find yourself thinking a negative thought, stop it immediately by any means necessary. Slap yourself in the face, yell something positive at the top of your lungs or jump up and down. Do whatever it takes to get back to a positive mindset as such is essential for continual happiness and success.

4. Develop The Ability to Forgive

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

The ability to forgive is a mental, emotional and/or spiritual process of releasing resentment, anger, or ill feelings you have towards another person. Forgiveness is something that most people fail miserably at even thought it’s so simple. Grudges only bring more misery to those who hold them and prevent good relations with the target. You makes mistakes all of the time so why not have mercy when other do? Remaining angry feels horrible while forgiving someone brings a refreshing sensation to the mind and healing to the relationship. “If we really want to love we must learn how to forgive.”

5. Learn to Control Your Emotions

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

Life is complicated and people are even more so. The chances are that at some point, we are faced with some difficult and emotionally challenging situations involving loss, conflict or rejection. These stresses (all too common in this ongoing economy) can often cause us to feel anxious or a bit down. If you don’t have the emotional skills to understand and manage these feelings, and this cycle goes on long enough, it can lead to feeling depressed or out of control, causing major problems in everyday life. The only person that can make you unhappy is you! You are the one that decides to be affected by the words and actions of others. Realize this so that the next time you experience a negative emotion, you can find the strength within yourself to overcome it.

6. Relax!

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

Knowing how to relax is vital for ensuring your health and well-being, as well as restoring the passion and joy in your life. Allowing stress to affect you can lead to depression, illness and a general sense of malcontent. With the speed of life steadily increasing, we all need to take a little “me time” and switch off from our busy schedules. This one is for you workaholics out there (myself included). Yes, work is very important and productive but you need to take some time to chill out everyday or you are going to burn out faster than a candle with no oxygen. Additionally, you need to reward yourself for a job well done. What’s the use of doing all of that work if you can’t have a little fun from time to time anyways?

7. Do What You Love

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

To do something well you have to like it. There is a huge difference between making a life and making a living; which one are you making right now? So many spend their entire lives trying to make as much money as possible so that they can afford to do what they really want later. It makes no sense to settle in life until you’re 65 so that you can retire and do what you want when you’re already WAY past your prime. We only live life once so why wouldn’t you want to spend it pursuing your bliss? To do anything else would be a tragic waste of the freedom you are allowed if you are reading this right now. Follow your bliss and you will be a thousand times more happy than your retirement date and 40+ years younger.

8. Choose Your Friends Wisely

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

The truth is, to live an emotionally healthy life, you need people in your lives. You need healthy, supportive relationships. You are affected far more than you think by the people you spend your time with. Your friends say a lot about you as a person. If you surround yourself with dishonest, unkind people, then their traits will eventually rub off on you somewhat. While no one is perfect, you shouldn’t spent lots of time with negative people who will only bring you down. Instead, choose friends that you admire. If your friends have solid character traits like intelligence, loyalty, kindness and dedication, you’ll see that they have a positive effect on your life. It’s perfectly fine for you to take your time in the beginning stages of a relationship in order to really choose your friends wisely.

9. Don’t Burn Bridges

Don’t Burn Bridges

You’ve no doubt heard that expression, “Don’t burn your bridges.” And, yes, it is a good idea to stay on good terms with others. The burning bridges does not deal a fatal blow to one’s freelance career. By that I mean maintain your relationships with people even if you think you are never going to see them again. For example, if you are quitting your job, don’t chew out your boss before leaving! You might run into him/her again later and life and wish you had never severed ties so harshly. You never know when you might need the help of someone you knew in the past. Plus there is already too much hatred in this world, why add more towards the people you interact with?

10. Focus Only on The Present

10 Tips to Spend a Happy Successful Life

Focus On Now The present. What is happening right now, at this moment. What we are doing now. The past is unchangeable so it is futile to reflect on it unless you are making sure you do not repeat past mistakes. The future is but a result of your actions today. So learn from the past to do better in the present so that you can succeed in the future. It is inevitable that we will think about all three. We cannot stop ourselves from thinking about the past or the future. However, with practice, we can focus on the present more than we already do.

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