I doubt that this piece will cause that kind of action, but I do feel it’s important that a man comes out and says, loudly, that he digs BBWs (Big Beautiful Women). But what is it about plus-size ladies that turns me on? Let me count way the ways…
1. They’re confident and comfortable in their own skin.
Many plus-size women have natural confidence, much like their thinner counterparts, but many bigger women may not. These women usually develop confidence over time, and it’s hard-earned confidence.
Unfortunately, a large number of curvy women may have had to go through abuse (mental, and possibly physical) and ridicule in their younger, and even adult years. That’s beyond sad but what’s actually wonderful about this sh*tty treatment is that once these ladies get through it, brush themselves off, and thrive, they end up possessing an air of confidence that’s regal, special, and magical.
And it’s really f*cking sexy. Ever seen a curvy queen stroll through a party, and slay, effortlessly? I have — and it’s hot. I totally respect it. It’s earned confidence that also doubles as a victory lap for a woman who’s determined to win at life. And I can’t get enough.
2. Their curves are super-hot.
Curves, curves, and more curves do it for me. There’s something about a shapely figure, individual style, and again, confidence, that drives me wild. Not that I don’t notice thin women. I do. I have. Full disclosure: I’ve dated thin women in my time, but my preference is BBW.
3. Their butts are to die for.
Seriously. I’m a lifelong b*tt man. Smaller women can have nice fannies, but no one does junk in the trunk like plus-size women. If a guy doesn’t turn his head when a hot BBW walks past wearing leggings, he’s blind. Or gay. Or crazy. He’s not one of my homeboys.
Plus-size women rock and I want everyone to know.