I’m sure some women think they can’t lie but they may find themselves telling lies the longer their stay in the marriage. It could be telling their husband he hasn’t added weight when he has to assuring him that their parents love him when they don’t.
A marriage is for better or for worse but at times one party will lie to avoid the worse part. That party could be the wife and she can tell lies to her husband for different reasons. The lies she will tell can be deemed as innocent white lies meaning that they veil the truth. It’s a lie told with good intentions and not one meant to hurt the other person.
Here are four major lies all wives should be familiar with:
1. “You’re the best sex I’ve ever had”
This could go in line with telling him his penis is the biggest on earth or he has made them feel like no one ever has. If they had a good sex life before, they would have experienced other men. Bigger men and so on but she ended up with her husband who they love so much that they chose him as their best. However if it’s about him being physically the best one earth…girl, that’s a big, fat white lie.
2. “I’ll be ready in a bit”
We know women take forever to get ready and wives are the same. Their husband may want to take them out for date night but they have so much to do, it’s taking forever. When he asks how much longer he has to wait, they shorten the time instinctively when they know by that time, there’s no way they will ever be ready. It’s just a white lie to give him false hope.
3. “No, I didn’t tell my friend about it”
Women talk. They talk to their parents, friends and siblings to an extent. In marriages, they tend to be more tight-lipped but if they have a big problem with you, rather than go to a counsellor or something, they will tell their friends. Plus, if you do something nice or something spectacular in bed, they will be inclined to share how great you are. They may not give full details but they will summarize. And when he ask them if they talk, they will say no so you don’t realize you are practically married to them and their friends.
4. “You’re right”
Right ke? You are never right, we always are. But sometimes, your husband needs to feel like a man and you don’t know better than him so to pamper his ego, you will apologize or say he was right. This will make him feel great about himself and will save you the stress of arguing with him. Plus deep down she will know she is right so she too will feel good.