Did you know that there are situations when you should absolutely refrain from having sex? It is important to have safe and consensual sex. Here is a list that tells you when not to get into any sort of hanky-panky.: Besides the obvious thing – not being the husband of the lady you plan to get down with, there are other reasons to keep away from intimacy. Check them out.
Either you or she or both of you are drunk. How much is too much? 3 to 5 drinks can make you less wise in your decisions and less cautious. Consuming alcohol, you become more open for risky things, such as unprotected sex. And you put yourself and the other person in danger of getting STDs (HIV and other love bugs) or impregnating the woman. Such a situation is highly undesirable. So, if you drink too much, make a rule to abstain from sex with a new girlfriend.
. When you wish to marry her
She is a virgin, and you have made up your mind to marry her. But you want her so and think: what if we do it now? Why wait for the wedding night? Stop! You are going to ruin it all. Waiting does not kill anyone. Just set the date and you won’t regret it. As waiting double the pleasure on the first night!
These reasons should stop you and make you think. Sex is not always a good idea, and it can be dangerous and has the power to ruin your life when done at the wrong time and with the wrong person.
3. At your bachelor’s party
You are a groom and your friends bring in some girls to have fun at your last bachelor’s night out. It’s the worst possible idea to get busy with a stripper or some strange girl. You have picked that woman to be your wife for a reason. Keep it in mind, when other ladies offer fun to you. You do not want to start your married life cheating. What you sow, you will reap!
4. At her parents’ house
That’s not the best location for the love games. They may return home unexpectedly. Or if they are home, they may enter her room any time and catch you at it. It’s a very embarrassing situation.