Being greedy or depending on a man for every of your needs might put him off easily. Try not to be idle. A woman who is independent is extremely important. No guy wants a woman that is dependent on of him to do things always. Being too dependent on your man to make you happy is a turnoff. Expecting him to change to meet your needs is also very unattractive. They want to be loved for who they are. Men want a lady who is secure and can take care of herself and not the one who will always call for recharge cards, money for laundry, money to make her hair etc. Don’t always expect every time, you can surprise him once in a while and pay for dates unexpectedly and he will always find you attractive. Don’t always wait around for him to validate your existence.
Extreme jealousy is an ugly emotion, some guys don’t mind jealousy to an extent, but if you get too jealous whereby you start nagging, hitting, stalking etc, then it’s very ugly. He might probably be trying to get you jealous and testing you to see how far you can tolerate. It’s normal, everyone gets jealous occasionally. If you truly love your partner and you feel someone is threatening to take them from you by flirting, it’s normal to feel a possessive pang of jealousy. Sometimes jealousy is warranted, if your partner has a history of playing around or if he’s done something to justify your mistrust cheated on you or has a history of cheating. But extreme jealousy is unattractive to men.
Be chatty at least but don’t be talkative. If you cannot make interesting conversations, there is very little chance men will find you attractive. A girl with misplaced confidence is a turn off for some men and if you think you are too good for a guy without having taken the time to get to know him, it will seem awkward to him. As a babe, you don’t need to be a clown or a standup comedian to have a sense of humor. Just enjoy the little things and have a positive attitude towards life. If a guy asks you out and you don’t want to accept, at least have the decency to open up. Don’t just disappear off the face of the earth and dress for your shape. Men really love a girl that doesn’t take herself too seriously, someone who isn’t afraid to be goofy, like a girl that can have a good time anywhere and not a pretender. If you don’t have the body for an outfit, don’t wear it. All women can dress well if they’re smart about it so a little self-awareness is all you need.
Lies And Lousiness
Lying is such an unattractive trait for anyone to have, but when it comes to women it’s like most of the time you can tell when they’re lying but they keep denying it. Some lie about things that they shouldn’t have to lie about and it can really be annoying to men. Loud women are annoying to men too, especially if you’re talking directly to him or screaming on the phone always. Some men hate when girls are too loud, high-pitched, immature and giggly, especially when greeting fellow female friends. Many guys commented on how much they value ambition and drive in life, as well as interesting conversation and simply having curiosity in the world. What they’re not after is a girl who looks good but turns out to be as sharp as a bowling ball.
Extreme Hairstyles And Makeup
A lady with crazy colored hairstyles always will only attract the attention of men but might not seem attractive. Foundation is used to hide imperfections, fine lines and blemishes and it should be applied as a thin shade that blends right in to your skin. Overuse can make it look like you came out with a layer of clay on your face. When a lady uses too much mascara, her eyelashes will all stick together and smear black with each blink. Nothing about that look is attractive to men. Use good quality mascara that dries quickly and does not smudge. After applying, use an eyelash brush to remove any excess off of your lashes. Men love beautiful and expressive eyes, free of black clumps. Yellow teeth and bad breath are not attractive to anyone. If you struggle in this area, you should realize that the source of the problem is probably found in poor hygiene. Or maybe you need to cut back on the coffee, black tea or red wine, or lose the cigarettes. Whatever it is, address the source of your problem, and try adding whitening toothpaste and dental floss to brighten your smile. Lozenges or sugar-free breath sprays also help a lot. Poorly manicured nails, hairy legs and unshaven armpits are major turn-offs for men. Poor personal hygiene cannot be hidden by makeup and nice clothes. men notice dry or oily skin. The sight of a oily face or peeling skin is a warning to back off. Don’t expect to turn him on with cracked lips. Put on your makeup at home and don’t fuss over it in public. Lipstick is a great tool to make your lips more beautiful and defined. But beware, if misused, the black lip liner pencil can become your enemy. When going out for dinner, use a lipstick and liner close to the color of your lips. Excesses are always a bad idea. Remember, the more expensive the perfume, the less you should use. The cheaper the perfume, the less you should use. So try to put a drop only in certain points such as the neck, behind the ears and wrists.
No man will like to hangout with a woman who drinks to stupor, the most unattractive thing in a woman is lack of inquisitiveness. When a woman pretends she know everything about everything, but a lack of interest in the world around her is a very big turn off for some men too.