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7 Basic Qualities Women Find Highly Attractive In Men

Women are confusing creatures. We know.

The list of what women find attractive in men, and what women don’t find attractive, is long and at times, contradictory.

You might think that figuring them out is impossible…

…and while there isn’t a secret recipe for understanding every woman, there are a few things that almost all women are drawn to.

To break the code, and teach you how to attract women, I’m going to tell you 7 things that women find highly attractive in men and why they do.

Here are 7 things that women find attractive and love in no particular order.

7. Leadership And Initiative

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Women look for a guy who will go after what he wants, but is also humble and can admit when he makes a mistake.

Guys who lead the way and have a plan make women feel cared for and protected. Women also love men who are self-starters; who make a name for themselves or are changing something in the world because of a dream they have.

One of the most attractive things a man can have is the ability to follow-through on what he says he’ll do. This is especially important when it comes to making plans with a woman.

If a man says he’ll call, and he doesn’t …he’s losing points with that woman already… Even if he “forgot.”

Nothing is more unattractive than a man who is all talk, no action. Your words hold value to women so it’s important to not say things if you have no intention of backing them up.

6. A Sense Of Humor

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Have you ever seen a comedian’s wife?

She’s usually a babe, right? Guys like Seyi Law, Ay Makun, Kevin Hart just to name a few. I bet these guys have fantastic personalities and are all-around nice guys…

…but I also bet a big reason these ladies were originally drawn to these men was because of their sense of humor. Knowing how to attract women is as simple as being able to make her laugh.

We’re all born with different senses of humor and with different things that we find funny. You aren’t always going to make every woman in the room laugh… and that’s okay! There will be a woman out there whose sense of humor you will connect with yours, so don’t be afraid to show your sense of humor

Oh, and as a bonus tip: Don’t take yourself so seriously. Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself. If you spill a drink on your shirt, make a little joke about it, laugh at yourself and soon she’ll be giggling too.

5. Passion And Ambition

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A man with a passion for life and a drive to pursue his dreams is extremely attractive to women. Passion and ambition are instant turn-on’s.

You don’t need to be a famous rock god, rap star or a multi-million-dollar lawyer to attract women, either. Choose a hobby, career, or dream that gets you excited and pursue it. Even if you’re a beginner or are just entering a new career field, the passion you have for that thing will shine through and instantly attract women.

Think about it: As a man, don’t you like a woman who has interests she’s passionate about and goals she’s working towards?

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Of course you do!

It’s the same for women.

Seeing a man who’s pursuing his dreams wholeheartedly allows women to see just how wholeheartedly he would pursue other things – like a girl he’s interested in, for example.

4. A Sense Of Style

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First impressions are everything and one of the things women find attractive is a man who can dress well. Being well-dressed and well-groomed isn’t just about looking your best: It’s about feeling your best, too.

To women, a man who is well-groomed and well-dressed takes pride in his appearance and takes himself seriously. You don’t have to have a particular style (like outdoorsy or urban) to attract women. You don’t even have to change a ton about your own style. You just need to look clean and comfortable.

And please: Don’t wear anything that has a ridiculous catchphrase on it. E.g: ‘My money grows like grass’, Instant turn off.

3. Confidence

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This is a tricky one. There’s a very fine line between confidence and arrogance.

Confidence is one of the top things women find attractive in men, but arrogance is one of the biggest turnoffs. To come across confident, don’t be afraid to share your accomplishments, but stop just short of bragging.

Men who’re confident are more than happy to tell a woman about their recent promotion, but will quickly change the topic to ask their lady a question. This shows them that you aren’t just interested in talking about yourself all night but you are confident in knowing who you are.

A man who’s confident is sexy to women. A man who can’t shut up about his high school track record, on the other hand, is not.

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