98 Views

How To Rebuild A Broken Relationship- Must Read

1. Time
Do not expect an instant bounce back in your relationship. It takes time and there are a lot of ups and downs. Try to focus on the ups, and work through the downs with patience. Pushing or expecting things to be better too soon can be very damaging. Give the other person time to work through the situation also.

2. Stop focusing on the negative and look for the positive
This goes for both you and the person you are struggling with. When you focus on the negative aspects of others, it is easy to hold anger toward them. But remember, none of us is perfect; we all make mistakes. It can be harder to focus on the good traits of a person, but it is well worth the effort.

3. Don’t expect them to change
It is never good to start thinking something along the lines of, “Our relationship would be much better if they would just … ” Expecting someone else to change is like expecting the weather to be exactly how you think it should be every day. We can not control some things, and need to accept that.

4. Set boundaries for yourself
It is crucial that you realize that you can only change yourself, but you are worth protecting. Set boundaries for yourself. Walk away for a while to cool off and collect your thoughts. Distance yourself emotionally when it becomes too much, and slowly work back into the relationship when you can handle it.

ALSO READ  9 Simple Ways To Prevent Kidney Disease

5. Serve
Serving the person you are having issues with is ideal, but any kind of service will make you feel better. We love those we serve. Sometimes service has to come in order for love to return.

6. Ask for help
Please don’t be afraid to ask for help. Pray and/or talk to a counselor. If you are struggling, a third party who is not involved with the situation can really be of help. They can see things you might have missed because your emotions were clouded with hurt.

7. Forgive
It is so important to forgive ourselves and others. When you do, you release a burden off of your shoulders. As the book by M. L. Stedman, “The Light Between Oceans” says, “You only have to forgive once. To resent, you have to do it all day, every day.”

Get the best viral stories straight into your inbox!

Don't worry, we don't spam

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published.

Latest Posts

Asisat Oshoala Meets Tony Elumelu In Lagos (Photos)
Best of Nigeria
44 views
Best of Nigeria
44 views

Asisat Oshoala Meets Tony Elumelu In Lagos (Photos)

MT - December 16, 2017

The reigning African footballer of the year, Asisat Oshoala paid a courtesy visit to Nigerian economist, entrepreneur, and philanthropist Tony elumelu to discuss girl child education and…

Why Medical Doctors Are Leaving Nigeria – NMA
Food and Health
59 views
Food and Health
59 views

Why Medical Doctors Are Leaving Nigeria – NMA

PH - December 16, 2017

Three hundred Nigerian doctors left the country in 2016, the National President, Nigerian Medical Association, Prof. Mike Ogirima has revealed. He said more doctors have already joined…

Excited Nigerian Lady Shows Off How Much She Saved Withing 4 Months. (Photos)
Business
64 views
Business
64 views

Excited Nigerian Lady Shows Off How Much She Saved Withing 4 Months. (Photos)

MT - December 16, 2017

A Nigerian lady identified as Zinny Sandra Chikezie, has highlighted the importance of saving after she saved over N64,000 after breaking her saving box. According to her,…

Physically Challenged Lady Set To Wed Her Sweetheart In Akwa Ibom. See Pre-wedding Photos
Romance and Love
55 views
Romance and Love
55 views

Physically Challenged Lady Set To Wed Her Sweetheart In Akwa Ibom. See Pre-wedding Photos

MT - December 16, 2017

Here are pre-wedding pictures of a physically challenged lady and her sweetheart who are set to tie the knot on December 27 in Akwa Ibom state. According…

How Family Of ‘Killer Wife’ Tried To Hide Evidence After Killing Ex-PDP Chairman’s Son – Police
Shocking
62 views
Shocking
62 views

How Family Of ‘Killer Wife’ Tried To Hide Evidence After Killing Ex-PDP Chairman’s Son – Police

MT - December 16, 2017

The Nigerian Police Force, yesterday, alleged before an Abuja High Court at Jabi that family members of Maryam Sanda, wife of murdered son of erstwhile Chairman of…

Why EFCC Arrested Ex-Senate President David Mark
Politics
107 views
Politics
107 views

Why EFCC Arrested Ex-Senate President David Mark

PH - December 16, 2017

There were revelations yesterday on why former Senate President, Senator David Mark, was arrested and quizzed by the Economic and Financial Crimes commission (EFCC). A source in…

Former President Obasanjo Bags PhD in Christian Theology
Religion
69 views
Religion
69 views

Former President Obasanjo Bags PhD in Christian Theology

PH - December 16, 2017

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo on Friday bagged the award of Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) in Christian Theology from the Department of Religious Studies, Faculty of Arts of…

Fr. Mbaka Reveals Why Atiku Should Be Nigeria’s Next President
Politics
124 views
Politics
124 views

Fr. Mbaka Reveals Why Atiku Should Be Nigeria’s Next President

PH - December 15, 2017

Rev. Fr. Ejike Mbaka, of the Adoration Ministry, has declared that former Vice President, Atiku Abubakar is the new blessing for Nigeria. He said Abubakar has what…

Caroline Danjuma Celebrates Her Ex-Husband, Musa Danjuma
Entertainment
110 views
Entertainment
110 views

Caroline Danjuma Celebrates Her Ex-Husband, Musa Danjuma

MT - December 15, 2017

It appears Caroline and her billionaire ex-husband, Musa Danjuma are friendly exes. Caroline and Musa went their separate ways in February 2016 after 10 years of marriage.…

How Police Almost Detained My Dad For Helping Boko Haram Victim – Lady Reveals
Shocking
85 views
Shocking
85 views

How Police Almost Detained My Dad For Helping Boko Haram Victim – Lady Reveals

MT - December 15, 2017

There are still good people in Nigeria. A lady has revealed how her family passed through hell in the course of helping a young man whose parents…

Bishop Oyedepo’s Landmark University Begins Rice Production [Photos]
Business
104 views
Business
104 views

Bishop Oyedepo’s Landmark University Begins Rice Production [Photos]

MT - December 15, 2017

The Vice-Chancellor, Professor Adeniyi Olayanju has reiterated the commitment of the University to becoming an incubation centre for Agripreneurs and agricultural practitioners as catalysts for national economic…

Here’s NNPC Boss, Baru’s Reaction To Report Linking Kyari To N50bn Funds Kept Away From TSA
Politics
91 views
Politics
91 views

Here’s NNPC Boss, Baru’s Reaction To Report Linking Kyari To N50bn Funds Kept Away From TSA

MT - December 15, 2017

Below is a full statement from the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, NNPC; "The Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC) has disclaimed the allegation that its Group Managing Director,…

Benue State House of Assembly Confirms Idoma Man As Chief Judge
Politics
60 views
Politics
60 views

Benue State House of Assembly Confirms Idoma Man As Chief Judge

MT - December 15, 2017

Benue State House of Assembly on Friday confirmed Justice Adam Onum as the new Chief Judge of the State. The confirmation of Justice Onum came after the…

Mr Eazi Builds Borehole For A Village To Promote “Pour Me Water” His New Song
Entertainment
78 views
Entertainment
78 views

Mr Eazi Builds Borehole For A Village To Promote “Pour Me Water” His New Song

MT - December 15, 2017

Few Weeks ago Mr Eazi dropped a new song titled 'pour me water', a week past he complained of low download of the song on Twitter, And…

This ONE Campaign Documentary shows the Deplorable State of Nigeria’s Primary Healthcare
Food and Health
70 views
Food and Health
70 views

This ONE Campaign Documentary shows the Deplorable State of Nigeria’s Primary Healthcare

PH - December 15, 2017

Earlier this year, Kannywood Star Ali Nuhu and the ONE Campaign visited Kantudu community in Kano where they experienced first-hand, the stark reality of the health care crisis in Nigeria. In…

Childhood Throwback Photo Of Herbert Wigwe, CEO Of Access Bank PLC
Best of Nigeria
76 views
Best of Nigeria
76 views

Childhood Throwback Photo Of Herbert Wigwe, CEO Of Access Bank PLC

MT - December 15, 2017

The amazing throwback photo of Access bank Ceo, Mr Herbert Onyewumbu Wigwe was shared on social media. Access bank via Facebook page, posted this photo and captioned it  #ThrowbackThursday. Hey…

The Beatz Awards 3 Celebrates Creative Minds in Music Production and Business
Entertainment
64 views
Entertainment
64 views

The Beatz Awards 3 Celebrates Creative Minds in Music Production and Business

PH - December 15, 2017

Nigeria’s hottest recording professional and business executives are again going to be honored this year, as Eliworld International Limited presents “The Beatz Awards 3.” This year, The Beatz…

“He Saw My Picture And Slid Into My DM” – Instagram User Shares Love Story
Inspiring
113 views
Inspiring
113 views

“He Saw My Picture And Slid Into My DM” – Instagram User Shares Love Story

MT - December 15, 2017

Temitope Atanda shared her love story of how her fiance slid in her dm ” He saw a picture of me reposted by @hijablovers and he sent…

Loading...