A mature relationship requires a healthy dose of sacrifice and compromise, but too much of that and you could lose sight of who you really are (Identity). After all, your partner fell for you and not a version of you who made a billion little tweaks and now only slightly resembles you.
No matter how much you love someone, there’s nothing wrong with putting your foot down every once in a while, don’t forget that every relationship leads to somewhere either the path to a happy married life or I am sorry I don’t think we can continue. Therefore, check out these 11 things no one especially ladies should ever have to do for love:
I know a lot of you expected this point to come first, well your guess is as good as mine. Since when does proving your love require needles and permanent ink? We get that your love is supposed to be just as long lasting as the tattoo, but come on, let’s just have some good faith and keep the branding to a minimum. Some girls go to the extent of making the names of their current boo on a sensitive part of their body forgetting the fact that one constant thing in life is CHANGE. What if tomorrow comes, and the intoxication suddenly dwindles making the two parties to part ways, what will happen to that indelible name or image on that body? I am sure no reasonable guy will be comfortable viewing another guy’s name or image of your body.
Sharing Nude Pictures
In this world of post it, share it, like it, tweet it all in a split second, some ladies still allow their immature emotions to becloud their sense of morality and sound judgment. Because your guy is in the mood and wants to see a something that will help him out of the mood, you foolishly send your nude pictures or videos to him. What if there is a break-up and he is provoked to do something crazy… then you will know that the witches in your villages are monitoring you.
Sorting Bills ALL The Time
We all love powerful women who can support themselves, but that doesn’t mean you have to support your date every single time you go out. Plus, let’s be honest, it is nice to wine and dine out of the home once in a while but not on her wallet.
Spend Every Single Holiday with Their Family
I know you are trying to win the heart of his family with your the girl-is-good attitude, but too much of it will only expose a lot about you to the family members especially the ones with SPECIAL attitude, if you understand what I mean- these ones can sit down and dissect you within the first few hours of knowing you.
Flaunting That RING On Social Media
Because of constant pestering from you, he eventually gives you a ring and you go all the way to flaunt it on the social media to whom it may concern, forgetting the fact that this same guy doesn’t even know your younger sister, not even your parents. Some even go ahead to name it engagement ring without the fulfilling the normal rites. don’t be deceived by rings
Change Your Diet
A girl that used to love pounded yam and one soup changes to fried rice and barbecue chicken for her ‘tush’ man. Seriously, if you change your diet, it should be because you want to. No one should come between a woman and her food.
Weird Intercourse Stuff
Experimenting during intercourse is awesome but HEY if you don’t want, please speak up! Maintain a healthy and romantic s ex life. The moment he is making odd and strange demands against your wish, stand your ground and refuse bluntly, inconveniencing yourself will not make him stay, so why do it at first?
Ditch Your Friends
“If you want to my lover, you have to get with my friends.” In the first few months you may want to spend every waking moment together, but after that, it’s important to make sure you’re both still logging time with your friends.
Adopt Their Crazy Hobby
Do they like to go swimming every Saturday? Great!, Partying every Friday? Ok, No. Stop! If they have a hobby that you have less than zero interest in, there is no harm in saying “See you when you get back!”, don’t forget those hobbies are something you do willingly without being coerced.
No partner should pressure you to dress in a way that is not ‘just you.’ If you love your clothes, a few tweaks here and there are one thing, but a complete wardrobe overhaul is out of the question.
Betray Your Team Of Choice
This is a bonus tip for the ladies who love sports. If you and your man happen to be fans of opposing teams, don’t let him convince you to switch sides. Besides, a little rivalry can be hot…
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