I believe everyone would like to have a normal delivery, but it doesn’t always go like that most of the times. Life is full of complications, so if any woman should have her child through CS, she should be praised for even having the baby in the first place.
So the issue of normal delivery should not be something women use in taunting one another rather encourage and praise.
It is beyond ridiculous to know that in 2018 some women still think that have normal birth makes them more superior than women who have CS. Due to some cultural and religious beliefs they think that women who have normal birth are more of a woman. This is very wrong.
In an interview, Ufuoma Mcdermott shares her thoughts on this.
Both of my children were born by caesarean section and I still feel very proud of motherhood. My children are my treasure and pride. I don’t think anyone should decide how a child is brought into the world because complications sometimes warrant CS. If everything is good, then the doctor would insist on a normal birth.
At any point in time, motherhood is motherhood. It makes me laugh when people say that women who have a CS are not strong women. It is amazing how ignorant some people are. My son, for example, was conceived through in vitro fertilisation and when it was time for delivery, there was a breach, which means that the head of the child was up in the uterus as against it being down, so it was not advisable to push at the time.
I’m glad that I listened to the doctor because, by the time my son was brought out, he had his placenta around his neck. If I had pushed, I might have strangled him. I think it is ignorance when someone comes out to say that she is a strong woman so she has to do normal child delivery. Yet, I am patient with people because I got to a point where I was enlightened.
Most people that say they are Hebrew women speak from what they have been taught by their mothers and grandmothers. They have been told that if they do not have the normal childbirth, then they are not Hebrew women. These women can be forgiven because the truth is that a mother is always a mother. When it comes to the process of childbirth, you cannot take away the pain that comes with it whether it is by CS or normal delivery; you would feel the pain whether it is before, during or after childbirth.